Frequently Asked Questions 經常會問的問題
About The Marriage Course 有關美滿婚姻課程
What is The Marriage Course about? 美滿婚姻課程有什麼內容 ?
The Marriage Course was developed in 1996 by Nicky and Sila Lee (authors of The Marriage Book) for couples looking for practical support to strengthen their relationship. The course equips couples with tools and techniques to keep the spark alive and stay connected. There is no group work and each couple’s conversations are completely private. Over seven sessions, the course will help you to:
- Understand each other’s needs 瞭解彼此的需要
- Communicate more effectively 有效地溝通
- Grow closer by learning methods to resolve conflict 通過學習方法解決衝突
- Recover from the ways you may have hurt each other 你們可從彼此傷害的方式中復原
- Recognise how your upbringing affects your relationship 認識到你的成長如何影響你的關係
- Improve relationships with parents and in-laws 改善你與父母和姻親的關係
- Develop greater sexual intimacy 發展更好的性關係
- Discover each other’s “love language” and much, much more…. 發現對方愛的語言」等等…
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What is The Pre-Marriage Course about? 美滿婚姻預備課程 有什麼內容 ?
The Pre-Marriage Course was developed in 1985 by Nicky and Sila Lee (authors of The Marriage Book) to help couples invest in their relationship to build a lasting marriage. It is for couples who are engaged and for those exploring marriage. There is no group work and each couple’s conversations are completely private. Over five sessions, the course will help you to:
- Recognise the importance of commitment 認識到承諾的重要性
- Understand and appreciate your differences 了解和欣賞您的差異
- Learn the art of communication 學習溝通的藝術
- Resolve conflict 解決衝突
- Spend time together 花時間在一起
- Recognise the influence of your family background 認識到家庭背景的影響
- Develop a good sexual relationship 發展良好的性關係
- Talk about your goals, values and dreams and much, much more…
談論你的目標、價值觀和夢想等等…
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How to Run The Marriage Course 如何開辦美滿婚姻課程 ?
Why should I run The Marriage Course?
The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course act as a bridge between the church and the local community by recognising the need to go beyond the social, as well as physical, walls of the church to help couples with their relationships.In a world of increasing complexity, people more than ever need a tool to help with their relationships. The Marriage Course is designed to refresh, strengthen and, in some cases, transform relationships. The course equips couples with tools and techniques to keep the spark alive and stay connected. For couples who are engaged or wanting to explore marriage, The Pre-Marriage Course provides practical guidance on how to build strong, deep foundations that will last a lifetime. As marriages become healthier and stronger, so too does family life and this has the potential to transform entire communities.
We’ve created a video explaining in more depth why you should consider running The Marriage Course. Check it out here.
How do I get started running The Marriage Course?
To get started running your course, please visit The Marriage Course website where you will find our more information. To access and download all the materials to help run your course, please register your course on our Marriage Course Builder. There are only a few resources you need to run The Marriage Course:
要開始運行您的課程,請訪問美滿婚姻課程網站,在那裡您可以找到我們的更多資訊。
要訪問和下載所有材料以幫助運用您的課程,請在我們的美滿婚姻課程建造者上註冊您的課程。您只需要少數資源即可執行美滿婚姻課程:
- The Marriage Course episodes – available as a DVD or to download online 美滿婚姻課程劇集 – 以DVD形式提供或在線上 下載
- Two Guest Journals per couple 每對夫婦兩本來賓日誌
- The Marriage Course Leaders’ Guide 美滿婚姻課程帶領者手冊
- And we recommend you watch our training videos 我們建議您觀看我們的培訓影片
To access these materials to buy or download, register your course on the Marriage Course Builder.
How to Run The Pre-Marriage Course 如何開辦 美滿婚姻預備課程
How do I get started with running The Pre-Marriage Course? 如何正式開辦美滿婚姻預備課程?
To get started running your course, please visit our website where you will find our more information. To access and download all the materials to help run your course, please register your course at Marriage Course Builder. There are only a few resources you need to run The Pre-Marriage Course:
The Pre-Marriage Course episodes – available as a DVD or to download online 美滿婚姻預備課程劇集 – 以DVD形式提供或是在網路下載
- Two Guest Journals per couple 每對夫婦兩本來賓日誌
- The Pre-Marriage Course Leaders’ Guide 美滿婚姻預備課程 帶領者手冊
- Couple Survey (optional) 情侶問卷調查(可選)
- Support Couples’ training videos (if using the Couple Survey) 支援夫妻培訓影片(如果使用情侶問卷調查)
And we recommend you watch our training videos To access these materials to buy or download, register your course on the Marriage Course Builder.
我們建議你觀看我們的培訓影片, 要訪問這些材料,以進行購買或下載,請在 婚姻課程資源中心 上,註冊你的課程。
The Marriage Course and Pre-Marriage Course Remake
新版的美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程
We heard that The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course episodes were getting remade. How do I get the new series? 我們聽說美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程的劇集正在重製新版。如何獲得新的版本呢?
We are excited to share that the remake of The Marriage Course has been available to buy from your local distributor or download for free online since January 2020. The remake includes:
我們很高興分享,自 2020 年 1 月以來,《美滿婚姻課程》重拍版本,可從你們當地的經銷處購買,或者在線上免費下載。 重製部分包括:
- 7 new episodes of The Marriage Course 美滿婚姻課程的 7 課新劇集
- 5 new episodes of The Pre-Marriage Course 美滿婚姻預備課程的 5 課新劇集
- Plus: new Guest Journals, Leaders’ Guides, training videos, and promotional materials此外:新的來賓手冊、帶領者手冊、培訓影片和宣傳材料
You can download the videos and matching resources on the Marriage Course Builder after registering your course. To purchase the hardcopy materials, please reach out to your National Office.
當你註冊好課程後,可以下載 婚姻課程資源中心 上的影片和相同的資源。 想要購買拷貝的材料,請連繫你所在國家的辦公室。
How much does it cost? 還需要多少錢?
Costs vary according to regions, please get in touch with your local National Office to enquire.
費用 會因地區而有所不同,請與你所在國家的當地辦公室連繫查詢。
Please note that the latest remade version of the course (2020) is available to download online for free on the Marriage Course Builder, thanks to generous donors who made this possible.
請注意,該課程的最新重做版本(2020 年)可在 婚姻課程資源中心 上,免費做線上 下載,這要感謝慷慨地捐款者,他們使這一切都變為可能。
How to Access Resources 如何存取資源
What is the Couple Survey? 夫妻問卷調查是什麼?
The Couple Survey is an optional series of questions to be completed by guests on The Pre-Marriage Course before the course begins. The purpose of the Couple Survey is to:
夫妻問卷調查是一系列可選的問題,由來賓在課程開始前完成。夫妻問卷調查的目的是:
- Affirm areas of strength 肯定優勢區域
- Highlight those issues the couple needs to discuss 強調這對夫婦最需要討論的問題
- Help them make sure they are ready for marriage 幫助他們確保他們為婚姻做好準備
- Give a realistic view of what makes a marriage work 給出一個現實的觀點,讓婚姻成功的原因
Couples do not receive the results of their Couple Survey. Instead following the course they have a discussion with a designated Support Couple. The Couple Survey report guides the conversation, affirming areas of strength in the couple’s relationship and highlighting issues for discussion.
夫妻不會收到他們的夫妻問卷調查結果。相反地,在課程結束之後,他們與指定的支持夫婦進行了討論。夫妻問卷調查報告指導對話,肯定了夫妻關係中的優勢領域,並突顯需要討論的問題。
What’s a support couple? 什麼是支持夫婦 ?
Each couple on The Pre-Marriage Course is allocated a support couple. The requirements for support couples are simply that they are married; that they have completed The Marriage Course; that they are happy to host a couple from The Pre-Marriage Course, usually in their home, over an evening and that they have been approved by someone with pastoral oversight (see the sample form that can be downloaded from The Marriage Course Builder for this signed approval). During the evening the Support Couple guides the guests in conversation using the findings of the Couple Survey, which the guests would have completed before the start of the course.
美滿婚姻預備課程的每對情侶都會被分配到一對守望夫婦。對守望夫婦的要求只要是他們已婚;他們已經完成過美滿婚姻課程;他們很高興在一個晚上接待一對來自美滿婚姻預備課程的情侶,通常是在他們的家中,並且他們已經得到了牧師監督者的批准(請參閱可以從婚姻課程資源中心下載的樣本表格,以獲取此簽名批准)。在晚上,支持夫婦使用夫婦問卷調查的結果,引導來賓進行對話,來賓要在課程開始前完成。
The role of the support couple is to affirm areas of strength and highlight issues the couple needs to discuss. The Couple Survey report is very easy to use, with suggested follow-up questions for the Support Couple to ask the guest couple to facilitate the discussion.Once you register your course, you’ll be able to access dedicated training videos for support couples which fully explain their role. Head to Run The Pre-Marriage Course to get started. There is no Couple Survey or Support Couple role for The Marriage Course. It is designed only to accompany The Pre-Marriage Course.
Trying The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course
嘗試 美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程
What are The Marriage Course session topics? 美滿婚姻課程課程 每堂的主題是什麼?
There are seven sessions of The Marriage Course, looking at the following topics: 美滿婚姻課程有七個部分,著重於以下主題:
- Strengthening Connection 加強連結
- The Art of Communication 溝通的藝術
- Resolving Conflict 解決衝突
- The Power of Forgiveness 寬恕的力量
- The Impact of Family 家庭的影響
- Good Sex 美好的性生活
- Love in Action 愛在行動中
For more information, head to asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-course
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How long is The Pre-Marriage Course? 美滿婚姻預備課程 要上有多長時間 ?
The Pre-Marriage Course takes place over five sessions. These are usually on one evening every week. Each session includes:
美滿婚姻預備課程分五堂課進行。這些通常在每周一個晚上。每堂課包括:
- food 食物
- a talk on the session’s topic 關於課程主題的講座
- space for private conversations 私人的談話空間
The course can also be combined with the Couple Survey, which the couples complete before the course, and then an evening with a married Support Couple following the course to look at their Couple Survey report.
What are The Pre-Marriage Course session topics? 美滿婚姻預備課程課程 每堂的主題是什麼?
There are five sessions to The Pre-Marriage Course: 美滿婚姻課程有五堂課 分別是:
- Communication 溝通
- Conflict 衝突
- Commitment 承諾
- Connection 連結
- Adventure 旅程
For more information, head to asiapacific.alpha.org/the-pre-marriage-course
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