Frequently Asked Questions 經常會問的問題

About The Marriage Course 有關美滿婚姻課程

What is The Marriage Course ministry about? 有關美滿婚姻課程 事工是什麼 ?
How many courses are running globally? 全球有多少門課程正在運行?
What is The Marriage Course about? 美滿婚姻課程有什麼內容 ?

The Marriage Course was developed in 1996 by Nicky and Sila Lee (authors of The Marriage Book) for couples looking for practical support to strengthen their relationship. The course equips couples with tools and techniques to keep the spark alive and stay connected. There is no group work and each couple’s conversations are completely private.  Over seven sessions, the course will help you to:

美滿婚姻課程由 李力奇和 李希拉夫婦(《婚姻白皮書》的作者)於1996年開發,旨在為尋求實際支持以強化他們關係的夫婦提供支援。該課程為情侶們提供了工具和技術,以保持火花的活力和保持聯繫。沒有小組討論,每對夫婦的談話都是完全私人性的。 在七堂課中,這課程將幫助您:
  • Understand each other’s needs    瞭解彼此的需要
  • Communicate more effectively     有效地溝通
  • Grow closer by learning methods to resolve conflict        通過學習方法解決衝突
  • Recover from the ways you may have hurt each other     你們可從彼此傷害的方式中復原
  • Recognise how your upbringing affects your relationship  認識到你的成長如何影響你的關係
  • Improve relationships with parents and in-laws                改善你與父母和姻親的關係
  • Develop greater sexual intimacy                                             發展更好的性關係
  • Discover each other’s “love language” and much, much more….    發現對方愛的語言」等等…

For more information, head to: asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-course  需要了解更多資訊,請前往 : asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-courses

What is The Pre-Marriage Course about? 美滿婚姻預備課程 有什麼內容 ?

The Pre-Marriage Course was developed in 1985 by Nicky and Sila Lee (authors of The Marriage Book) to help couples invest in their relationship to build a lasting marriage. It is for couples who are engaged and for those exploring marriage. There is no group work and each couple’s conversations are completely private.  Over five sessions, the course will help you to:

美滿婚姻預備課程由李力奇和 李希拉夫婦(《婚姻白皮書》的作者)於1985年開發,以説明夫妻雙方投資並建立持久的婚姻關係。這是為欲訂婚和那些探索婚姻的情侶。沒有小組討論,每對夫婦的談話都是完全私人性的。 在五堂課中,這課程將幫牧您:
 
  • Recognise the importance of commitment                認識到承諾的重要性
  • Understand and appreciate your differences            了解和欣賞您的差異
  • Learn the art of communication                                   學習溝通的藝術
  • Resolve conflict                                                                解決衝突
  • Spend time together                                                        花時間在一起
  • Recognise the influence of your family background 認識到家庭背景的影響
  • Develop a good sexual relationship                              發展良好的性關係
  • Talk about your goals, values and dreams and much, much more…
                                                                                           談論你的目標、價值觀和夢想等等…

For more information, head to: asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-courses    想要了解更多資訊,請前往 :  asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-courses

What’s the difference between The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course? 美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程有什麼差別?

How to Run The Marriage Course 如何開辦美滿婚姻課程 ?

Who can run The Marriage Course? 誰可以開辦美滿婚姻課程
Is The Marriage Course easy to run? 美滿婚姻課程 容易開辦嗎 ?
Why should I run The Marriage Course?

The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course act as a bridge between the church and the local community by recognising the need to go beyond the social, as well as physical, walls of the church to help couples with their relationships.In a world of increasing complexity, people more than ever need a tool to help with their relationships. The Marriage Course is designed to refresh, strengthen and, in some cases, transform relationships. The course equips couples with tools and techniques to keep the spark alive and stay connected. For couples who are engaged or wanting to explore marriage, The Pre-Marriage Course provides practical guidance on how to build strong, deep foundations that will last a lifetime. As marriages become healthier and stronger, so too does family life and this has the potential to transform entire communities.

美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程作為教會與當地社區之間的橋樑,認識到需要超越教會的社會和物理牆壁,説明夫妻建立關係。在一個日益複雜的世界中,人們比以往任何時候都更需要一種工具,來幫助建立他們的人際關係。美滿婚姻課程 旨在創新,增強,在一些情況下,能改變關係。該課程為夫婦準備了工具和技術,以保持火花活力並保持聯繫。對於已訂婚或想要探索婚姻的情侶,美滿婚姻預備課程提供了有關如何建立將持續一生的強大而深刻的基礎的實用指導。隨著婚姻變得更健康、更堅固,家庭生活也是如此,這有可能轉化整個社區。

We’ve created a video explaining in more depth why you should consider running The Marriage Course. Check it out here.

              我們製作了一個影片,更深入地解釋,為什麼你應該考慮開辦美滿婚姻課程。點擊這裡查看。
How do I get started running The Marriage Course?

To get started running your course, please visit The Marriage Course website where you will find our more information. To access and download all the materials to help run your course, please register your course on our Marriage Course Builder. There are only a few resources you need to run The Marriage Course:

要開始運行您的課程,請訪問美滿婚姻課程網站,在那裡您可以找到我們的更多資訊。

要訪問和下載所有材料以幫助運用您的課程,請在我們的美滿婚姻課程建造者上註冊您的課程。您只需要少數資源即可執行美滿婚姻課程:

  • The Marriage Course episodes – available as a DVD or to download online  美滿婚姻課程劇集 – 以DVD形式提供或在線上 下載
  • Two Guest Journals per couple                                     每對夫婦兩本來賓日誌
  • The Marriage Course Leaders’ Guide                           美滿婚姻課程帶領者手冊
  • And we recommend you watch our training videos  我們建議您觀看我們的培訓影片

To access these materials to buy or download, register your course on the Marriage Course Builder.

要存取這些材料以購買或下載,請在 美滿婚姻課程建造者 上,註冊你的課程。

 

Can we promote our course continually on the website? 我們可以在網站上,持續推廣我們的課程嗎?
We would like to run parts of your course, can we do this? 我們想運作你們的部分課程,我們可以這樣做嗎?

How to Run The Pre-Marriage Course 如何開辦 美滿婚姻預備課程

Who can run The Pre-Marriage Course? 哪些人能開辦 美滿婚姻預備課程 ?
Is The Pre-Marriage Course easy to run? 美滿婚姻預備課程容易開辦嗎 ?
How do I get started with running The Pre-Marriage Course? 如何正式開辦美滿婚姻預備課程?

To get started running your course, please visit our website where you will find our more information. To access and download all the materials to help run your course, please register your course at Marriage Course Builder. There are only a few resources you need to run The Pre-Marriage Course:

要開始運行您的課程,請訪問我們的網站,在那裡您可以找到我們的更多資訊。要訪問和下載所有材料以幫助運行您的課程,請在婚姻課程構建器中註冊您的課程。您只需要幾個資源來運行婚前課程:

The Pre-Marriage Course episodes – available as a DVD or to download online    美滿婚姻預備課程劇集 – 以DVD形式提供或是在網路下載

  • Two Guest Journals per couple                       每對夫婦兩本來賓日誌
  • The Pre-Marriage Course Leaders’ Guide    美滿婚姻預備課程 帶領者手冊
  • Couple Survey (optional)                                情侶問卷調查(可選)
  • Support Couples’ training videos (if using the Couple Survey)    支援夫妻培訓影片(如果使用情侶問卷調查)

And we recommend you watch our training videos To access these materials to buy or download, register your course on the Marriage Course Builder.

我們建議你觀看我們的培訓影片, 要訪問這些材料,以進行購買或下載,請在 婚姻課程資源中心 上,註冊你的課程。


The Marriage Course and Pre-Marriage Course Remake

新版的美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程

We heard that The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course episodes were getting remade. How do I get the new series? 我們聽說美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程的劇集正在重製新版。如何獲得新的版本呢?

We are excited to share that the remake of The Marriage Course has been available to buy from your local distributor or  download for free online since January 2020. The remake includes:

我們很高興分享,自 2020 年 1 月以來,《美滿婚姻課程》重拍版本,可從你們當地的經銷處購買,或者在線上免費下載。 重製部分包括:

  • 7 new episodes of The Marriage Course                美滿婚姻課程的 7 課新劇集
  • 5 new episodes of The Pre-Marriage Course        美滿婚姻預備課程的 5 課新劇集
  • Plus: new Guest Journals, Leaders’ Guides, training videos, and promotional materials此外:新的來賓手冊、帶領者手冊、培訓影片和宣傳材料

You can download the videos and matching resources on the Marriage Course Builder after registering your course. To purchase the hardcopy materials, please reach out to your National Office.

當你註冊好課程後,可以下載 婚姻課程資源中心 上的影片和相同的資源。 想要購買拷貝的材料,請連繫你所在國家的辦公室。

What other materials do I need to run The Marriage Course? 我還需要其他什麼材料 來開辦美滿婚姻課程?
How much does it cost? 還需要多少錢?

Costs vary according to regions, please get in touch with your local National Office to enquire.

費用 會因地區而有所不同,請與你所在國家的當地辦公室連繫查詢。

Please note that the latest remade version of the course (2020) is available to download online for free on the Marriage Course Builder, thanks to generous donors who made this possible.

請注意,該課程的最新重做版本(2020 年)可在 婚姻課程資源中心 上,免費做線上 下載,這要感謝慷慨地捐款者,他們使這一切都變為可能。

Is The Marriage Course remake available in languages other than English? 美滿婚姻課程是否會以英語以外的語言進行重製?
We have previously purchased Couple Survey credits and have a number of them still to be used. The credits do not show up on the new Marriage Course Builder website. Could you advise how I can rectify this? 我們以前購買過夫妻調查積分表,其中一些仍有待使用。學分沒有出現在新的婚姻課程資源中心網站上。你能建議我如何糾正這種情況嗎?
Will you be creating live talk scripts for The Marriage Course remake? 你們會為美滿婚姻課程重拍製作現場談話的腳本嗎?
Will you be providing sofa couple inserts? 你們會提供沙發夫婦投入嗎?


How to Access Resources 如何存取資源

What’s The Marriage Course Builder? 什麼是 婚姻課程資源中心 ?
What’s a Guest Journal? 什麼是來賓手冊 ?
What’s the difference between a Guest Manuals and Guest Journals? 來賓手冊和來賓日誌之間 有什麼區別?
What is the Couple Survey? 夫妻問卷調查是什麼?

The Couple Survey is an optional series of questions to be completed by guests on The Pre-Marriage Course before the course begins. The purpose of the Couple Survey is to:
夫妻問卷調查是一系列可選的問題,由來賓在課程開始前完成。夫妻問卷調查的目的是:

  • Affirm areas of strength                                                     肯定優勢區域
  • Highlight those issues the couple needs to discuss      強調這對夫婦最需要討論的問題
  • Help them make sure they are ready for marriage       幫助他們確保他們為婚姻做好準備
  • Give a realistic view of what makes a marriage work  給出一個現實的觀點,讓婚姻成功的原因

Couples do not receive the results of their Couple Survey. Instead following the course they have a discussion with a designated Support Couple. The Couple Survey report guides the conversation, affirming areas of strength in the couple’s relationship and highlighting issues for discussion.

夫妻不會收到他們的夫妻問卷調查結果。相反地,在課程結束之後,他們與指定的支持夫婦進行了討論。夫妻問卷調查報告指導對話,肯定了夫妻關係中的優勢領域,並突顯需要討論的問題。

 

I’m a Pre-Marriage Course Leader – how do I use the Couple Survey? 我是美滿婚姻預備課程負責人 – 如何使用夫妻問卷調查?
I’m a Pre-Marriage guest – how do I use the Couple Survey? 我是美滿婚姻預備課程的訪客, 如何使用夫妻問卷調查?
What’s a support couple? 什麼是支持夫婦 ?

Each couple on The Pre-Marriage Course is allocated a support couple. The requirements for support couples are simply that they are married; that they have completed The Marriage Course; that they are happy to host a couple from The Pre-Marriage Course, usually in their home, over an evening and that they have been approved by someone with pastoral oversight (see the sample form that can be downloaded from The Marriage Course Builder for this signed approval). During the evening the Support Couple guides the guests in conversation using the findings of the Couple Survey, which the guests would have completed before the start of the course.
美滿婚姻預備課程的每對情侶都會被分配到一對守望夫婦。對守望夫婦的要求只要是他們已婚;他們已經完成過美滿婚姻課程;他們很高興在一個晚上接待一對來自美滿婚姻預備課程的情侶,通常是在他們的家中,並且他們已經得到了牧師監督者的批准(請參閱可以從婚姻課程資源中心下載的樣本表格,以獲取此簽名批准)。在晚上,支持夫婦使用夫婦問卷調查的結果,引導來賓進行對話,來賓要在課程開始前完成。

The role of the support couple is to affirm areas of strength and highlight issues the couple needs to discuss. The Couple Survey report is very easy to use, with suggested follow-up questions for the Support Couple to ask the guest couple to facilitate the discussion.Once you register your course, you’ll be able to access dedicated training videos for support couples which fully explain their role. Head to Run The Pre-Marriage Course to get started. There is no Couple Survey or Support Couple role for The Marriage Course. It is designed only to accompany The Pre-Marriage Course.

支持夫婦的作用是確認優勢領域,並突顯情侶需要討論的問題。夫妻問卷調查報告非常易於使用,併為支持夫婦建議後續問題,以詢問來賓情侶以促進討論。註冊課程後,你將能夠訪問支持夫婦的專用培訓影片,這些影片充分解釋了他們的角色。前往運行美滿婚姻預備課程開始。美滿婚姻預備課程沒有夫妻問卷調查或支持夫婦的角色。它僅用於伴隨美滿婚姻預備課程。
Will you be creating live talk scripts for The Marriage Course remake? 你會為《美滿婚姻課程》重製版 ,製作現場談話腳本嗎?
Will you have a new version of the TMC party session available? 你們會有新版本的TMC派對聚會嗎?
Will you have a new version of the ‘Coping with Times of Separation’ session available? 你們會有新版的「面對分離時光」嗎?
Where can I access the training videos? 我們在哪裡可以存取培訓影片 ?
Is The Marriage Course available in my language? 美滿婚姻課程有我的語言版本嗎?
Where can I buy resources? 我在哪裡可以買到相關資源 ?
If a couple miss a session, how can I share the missed episode? 如果一對夫婦錯過了一次課程,我該如何分享錯過的影集?

Trying The Marriage Course and The Pre-Marriage Course

嘗試 美滿婚姻課程和美滿婚姻預備課程

Who can attend The Marriage Course or The Pre-Marriage Course? 誰可以參加美滿婚姻課程或 美滿婚姻預備課程?
Are your courses only for Christians? 你們的課程僅限基督徒參加嗎 ?
How do I find a course near me? 如何在我附近查詢此課程?
We’re not married but live together, which course should we attend? 我們沒有結婚,但已同居,我們應該參加哪個課程?
I can’t make every session. Is it still possible to attend the rest of the course? 我無法完成每個對話。 是否仍然可以參加此課程的其他部分?
How long is The Marriage Course? 美滿婚姻課程 要上有多長時間 ?
What are The Marriage Course session topics? 美滿婚姻課程課程 每堂的主題是什麼?

There are seven sessions of The Marriage Course, looking at the following topics:  美滿婚姻課程有七個部分,著重於以下主題:

  • Strengthening Connection          加強連結
  • The Art of Communication          溝通的藝術
  • Resolving Conflict                          解決衝突
  • The Power of Forgiveness            寬恕的力量
  • The Impact of Family                    家庭的影響
  • Good Sex                                          美好的性生活
  • Love in Action                                 愛在行動中

For more information, head to asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-course

有關更多資訊,請前往 asiapacific.alpha.org/the-marriage-course

 

How long is The Pre-Marriage Course? 美滿婚姻預備課程 要上有多長時間 ?

The Pre-Marriage Course takes place over five sessions. These are usually on one evening every week. Each session includes:

美滿婚姻預備課程分五堂課進行。這些通常在每周一個晚上。每堂課包括:

  • food                                                        食物
  • a talk on the session’s topic              關於課程主題的講座
  • space for private conversations      私人的談話空間

The course can also be combined with the Couple Survey, which the couples complete before the course, and then an evening with a married Support Couple following the course to look at their Couple Survey report.

該課程還可以與情侶問卷調查相結合,每對情侶在課程前要完成,然後在課程結束後,與已婚的支持夫婦一起度過一個晚上,看看他們的夫婦研究報告。
What are The Pre-Marriage Course session topics? 美滿婚姻預備課程課程 每堂的主題是什麼?

There are five sessions to The Pre-Marriage Course:        美滿婚姻課程有五堂課 分別是:

  • Communication     溝通
  • Conflict                    衝突
  • Commitment          承諾
  • Connection              連結
  • Adventure                旅程

For more information, head to  asiapacific.alpha.org/the-pre-marriage-course

有關更多資訊,請轉往  asiapacific.alpha.org/the-pre-marriage-course

 

What does a session look like? 課程對話是什麼樣子 ?
We can’t attend a course in person. Can we do it online or long-distance? 我們無法親自參加課程。我們可以在線上或遠端上課嗎?
I need a certificate to prove I’ve been on the course. Do you provide this? 我需要一份證書,’來證明我參加此課程了。你們會提供這個嗎?

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